Pastor. Leadership coach. Communicator. Asking the same question in every room.
Whether I'm working with a leader trying to figure out how to carry growing responsibility, or sitting with someone trying to navigate faith in the middle of real life — the question is always the same: what does it look like to live and lead well in the tension of it all?
Explore the Work ↓There's always a third option.
Most problems — in leadership and in life — get framed as a choice between two bad options. Push harder or give up. Control everything or let it fall apart. Hold on tight or walk away.
I've spent my career convinced there's almost always a third option. A harder path that requires more wisdom, more honesty, and more care than either extreme. That conviction shows up in how I preach, how I coach, and how I try to lead.
It's the same idea. Different rooms.
For leaders carrying a lot.
The Becoming Co. is my leadership coaching and consulting practice. I work with founders, executives, pastors, and managers who are serious about becoming the kind of leaders who can sustainably carry greater responsibility — without losing themselves in the process.
Third Option Leadership Podcast
Practical leadership conversations for high-capacity leaders.
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Helping automotive leaders build better teams, better systems, and better results.
Listen Now →For the everyday work of faith.
I've been a pastor for 20+ years. I believe faith is less about having the right answers and more about being honest enough to keep asking the right questions.
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Coming August 2026.
Bringing Bobby in.
I speak for leadership conferences, churches, staff teams, and organizational events — on leadership, faith, and the places where those two things overlap more than people expect.
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